Showing her that her pleasure means a lot to you — even more than your own pleasure — is a sure-fire way to guarantee that hot sex is in your future together. Instead of circling your tongue to find her sweet spot or mindlessly fingering her until she pushes you on her to begin sex, try something new: Women not only appreciate a giving lover, but they also value someone who is willing to demonstrate the movement, the variation and the endurance they need when it comes to making sure they are not only pleased but exhausted after foreplay. Or was it when she massaged her breasts, smiled, locked eyes with you, moaned and touched herself, all while making sure you finished? The willingness to learn and the ability to adapt are two things that will mean more to your girlfriend than doing the exact right thing.
Different strokes for different folks is always true, but consider this:
Oral Sex: What Do Women Like?
And then start with your hands before you venture down south. Use your hands before using your mouth. When you throw in different moves that are also stimulating, you take the oral sex game into a whole other world. Why the expert says this is hot: Or was it when she massaged her breasts, smiled, locked eyes with you, moaned and touched herself, all while making sure you finished?